8 kinds of men and women pairing, will break up!

Between men and women, because of mutual attraction, mutual goodwill, so go in together and become a pair of lovers. But not every lover can until you come to the end, although the character are very similar, it seems very take a couple break up someday. If these types of pairing, it will break up. One , you care about each other more  you love, but do not determine each other's thoughts; do you feel is appropriate, he seemed to disagree; he is not you miss him, you do not he seemed no difference What does this mean?"  two concentric if not, how can we peer?  "  Sometimes there will be a party to love the other more the case in the sound feelings, there will be the turn of the phenomenon, the two take turns playing the role of pursuit and pursuit of; However, if one always play a suitor, such feelings are not perfect, last long, you will love hungry, you will feel by the other control, you will feel angry, cheated and suffering. You love each other's potential you love each other's potential, rather than each other like you love each other the future might look like, and that he is not your partner, but the transformation of the object. Each time we make pre-marital counseling would ask, if the other party will not change in fifty years, you will be satisfied? If you want to change the other side, it felt quite satisfied, it is not love, but as stakes gambling, with both sides happy. Contacts with a person to love and respect each other's Physiognomy, not his future looks like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with his look now. 3 , you want to help each other you often feel sorry for you? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other to cheer up? You will not be afraid if you leave the other side, he will not stand against? If yes, I'm afraid you is a "  rescue mad   .   Rescue mad   not to find a suitable object, but to find that he sympathized with the object can help. Find a traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, being loved, aggrieved person, you love by the pity of Health, he would be grateful your heart, this feeling like a rescue mission, rather than a sound, balanced feelings.  The key to remember here is "  respect  " , the  object of your love you can respect, you must be very proud of each other, your partner do not want you to rescue, but do you really know him. 4, the other as the object of worship young actress fell in love with the director, college students fall in love with the professor, secretary fell in love with the boss ... and  fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because between the two can not equal treatment. Both men and women must be equal treatment, I do not mean the position, but the attitude, not idolize. Will fall in love with the object of worship, often low self-confidence, they feel that they are bad. , You only each other appearance to attract everyone such, right? If you find that he was attracted by the other side of a trait to ask ourselves if the other side there is no pair of big blue eyes, magnetic voice ...  If the other party is not a model, will not play basketball  ...  I with his  (  her  )  ? Men the appearance is the first productive force. 6, opportunities for short-term daily life you and your partner share a work, often with overtime, so you feel the love with each other...  you go on vacation for three weeks, to recognize a man on holiday, you feel like falling in love  ...  a short morning till evening, to scrape together in a special case, is not routine, such feelings can not be sustained because of the short period of time in daily life, can not make you completely understand each other's personality. 7, in order to treason before choosing this object parents always stressed to find a rich object, but why each of your boyfriend are a pauper; young parents on strict rules, but why each of your girlfriend too casual ; childhood on his father daily instruction, pass incense is the most important thing, but why your girlfriend is not can not be born, that is, do not want ... if you selected the object, always make their parents angry, it is likely that you just want to rebel, do you think must prove something to fight back, when you can not control their own choices, you do not really love each other, this relationship is doomed no results. 8, the other is not freedom of the body I made ​​this point to stay to the end, because it can not be regarded as feelings. The first is that choice of partner for life -  the other is a  "  freelance  "  .  "  freelance  "  is free to interact with you, not married, not engaged, there is no fixed contacts in, did not go to bed and the others, single people and your contacts.  If you fall in love with the man promised to breakfast and another woman broke up; he said he does not love the woman he loves you; his original object accept your existence, they do not intend to break up, but he want to be with you for a while; he just broke up, but may reunite ...  these are not free itself. Do not, and married or object interaction, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you are simply part of another person with leftover.